What’s so good about being a stay at home wife?
Before getting married I was a career woman. Even after being married. I just stopped working because I needed to recover my health from getting sick badly last year. We decided that I must take a rest for a while. Then my husband wanted me to stay at home.
I never thought it was going to be this challenging. Doing all these things inside the house. We don’t have a kid yet, because they’re gone a little too soon. So now, we are currently living just the two of us. Me playing the role of a wife. I salute all the women out there! Wives.. You are all quite beautiful the way you are handling everything. Now that I have so much time, I must say that I learned a lot how to become a great wife. What a great wife I should be for my husband. It takes a lot to maturity. You know, these kind of things we us girls need to do after being married.
Husband is like an eldest son to take good care everyday. Waking up early in the morning to prepare for his breakfast and as well as his dinner.
Taking too much time learning every household chores to do them on my own especially that we are living separately. I am just lucky enough his parents bought us a house. Sometimes it’s too exhausting that that I wanted to go out for a me time.
I am still on the process of accepting the drastic changes in my life from being a career woman into a plain housewife. I need to love being a wife. Because this is my fate.
Having too much time sometimes making me feel so bored of my life. Feeling like there is no progress happening. It feels like being stagnant.
Time is passing by each day that the only thing I did was to breathe. I missed those days where I used to be in my corporate world. For now, I am learning how to become more submissive to him. To lower down my ego and not to stay dominant as I am like I was before.
There are so much to learn about being a wife. I salute my mom! Because we are six siblings!
I thought that maybe God taken away our kids because I needed to learn all these things first. I should learn to become more understanding and have more patience in everything. It takes time to grow and to be more matured. Learning is always an everyday process.
He is the only one working now that’s why sometimes budgeting is really hard to adjust. Enough to sustain us. Thank God we are surviving.
There are times we get annoyed to petty things. If we are having a misunderstanding, we never put a dot to this marriage. No matter how hard it is to surpass from all these chaos, glad we are still holding on each other.
As I am figuring things out, I can see he is more appreciative to me when it comes to how I am better now and changing into a better wife. Maybe on his eyes I am more responsible now. I used to be an easy happy go lucky one. It took me year’s to finally digest that I am married now.
I was the one who insisted this marriage to level up our relationship yet I am the only one who gets drown easily. So thankful to God that I made the right choice to got married to him. In this lifetime we know how difficult it is to keep a long lasting happy marriage. That’s the reality.
I decided to change myself. God has given me a hard lessons for me to learned from. I needed to grow up for HIM to save our marriage. My daughters in heaven now, my two angel’s won’t be happy for sure whenever they’re seeing us their parents are fighting over and over again.
I needed to be more understanding, attentive wife and a chef to cook for his foods. Maybe these are the things my husband wanted me to be for so long since we got married.
Yes it’s hard to keep this marriage. But I couldn’t imagined what my life would be without him. For 11years of being together, seven years in a steady relationship and almost 4years of being married we we’re never perfect but we keep on deciding to stay together.
Our life as a couple is not a perfect one. Frenemies most of the times but I am so proud to have him by my side. I can’t let him go that easily. I learned how to refused of letting him go whenever life thrown a little challenges for us.
I have one of the best husband in the world!
He is a hard working guy! He is not a typical don romantico but he makes his own way of sweetness. I used to tell him I hate it when he is not that showy. I can see he is making some efforts to be on the sweet side of a husband.
I am loving him more now each day. I am learning to go further of getting to know his deeper side as well as a person. Finally I get to have so much time of looking deeply towards him.
I always pray to God everything about in our marriage. Whenever we lose control of every challenging circumstances along our way and it’s too difficult to endure.. I just keep on praying to God. That HE forever guide us to be in the center of our marriage.
We are moving forward with so much strength in our hearts for everything we’ve overcome as a couple. We are better now than we were before and more matured individuals I must say. Hoping and praying also that one day we’d become a family and have kids again.